MODERN MASCULINITY AN 8-WEEK MEN’S GROUP2026-02-09T09:30:04+11:00

AN 8-WEEK MEN’S GROUP

Modern
Masculinity

Modern
Masculinity

FOR MEN WHO WANT TO BE STRONG, OPEN-HEARTED & WHOLE

Traditionally, men have been encouraged to believe that true masculinity is defined by toughness and an absence of vulnerability.

 The tougher you are, the more of a “real man” you become. But under that old script, you were forced to deny half of your own humanity:

Toughen up.

Hide your feelings.

Swallow your needs.

Be invulnerable.

Be ‘Mr Fix It’.

But that is a recipe for loneliness. For failed relationships. For health issues.

And if we swing too far in the other direction – to always be soft and sensitive – we’re still denying half of ourselves.

What you need is to be whole:
a strong, sexy, brilliant,
big-hearted, loving man.

And you can be –
you just need to learn how…

AN 8 WEEK MEN’S GROUP

Are you ready to stop passing on the pain and become the partner, father, and man you can truly be proud of?

In 8 weeks, you can change your life and your legacy for good.

There are only 12 spaces available per group which give us time to dig deep, heal, and transform from the inside outside.

In-person groups commencing March & August 2026
On-line groups commencing May & October 2026

WHAT IS THE GROUP ABOUT?

This 8-week group will challenge what you’ve been taught about being a “good man” and what a modern and healthy expression of masculinity means to you.

Together we will challenge any outdated beliefs that get in the way of building a fuller, stronger, truer, more connected version of yourself.

Your relationships with others matter. The group also will help you open your heart while retaining your strength to build richer, more fulfilling relationships.

BENEFITS

  • Join a supportive brotherhood and grow alongside other men who get it and want to grow too. Share reflections, wins, and gain support.

  • Understand yourself better, connect with your purpose and create life you want.

  • Be closer to the people who matter to you, able to connect with compassion.

  • Be able to express your emotions without feeling “weak” or powerless.

  • Be comfortable accepting help from time to time and no longer pressured to be “the problem solver” or Mr Fix-It.”

  • Enhance a healthy self-esteem (hint: it’s not based on your ‘performance’) and knowing you don’t have to push to prove yourself, knowing your worth doesn’t lie in what you have or achieve.

  • Build confidence that you have the tools to handle conflict without shutting down or blowing up or attempting to control.

  • Build skills to set limits with others who treat you poorly – with strength, clarity, and assertiveness.

8 Weeks to Break the Isolation and Build the Skills to Thrive in Your Relationship with Yourself and Others.

WHO IS THIS FOR?

Men of all ages, backgrounds, and professions who want to step up and become models of a new masculinity – one that’s strong when needed, sensitive when needed. One that’s whole. Maybe you’re…

  • A husband stuck in the same arguments
  • A young man trying to find your way in a world that makes zero sense.
  • A father who wants to connect with his children & stop passing on the pain.
  • A man who’s tired of living cut off from real connection.
  • A man who’s single and wants to create a relationship where he can show up as the best version of himself and meet the needs of his future partner.
  • A man who has been taught to push down his feelings
  • A man who knows his behaviour as a partner or father is not working and doesn’t know what to do.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

  • Challenging outdated beliefs and showing you how to build a fuller, more connected version of yourself.
  • Why traditional masculine ideals have made so many men lonely, numb, or angry.
  • How to connect with yourself and what real self-esteem is and how to show up with strength & integrity.
  • How to be adaptable in your world: gentle & warm when it’s called for and tough when it’s called for.
  • How to stand your ground and be assertive, without coming across as dominating.
  • What intimacy really is – and the skills and practise to do it better.

WHAT IS THE INVESTMENT?

The 8-week group program cost: $595 (AUD)

There are 12 places available in each group which provides space for us to work with individual men’s needs and challenges.

Meet your facilitators

Every group is led by two therapists who are highly qualified in working with individuals, couples, and groups, ensuring expert guidance throughout.

Jon Farham Psychotherapist at The Courageous Man Mental Health Clinic

MEET JON

Jon is the co-founder of The Courageous Man. He specialises in working with men and has worked in the fields of Alcohol, Drug and Gambling rehabilitation, as well as Mental Health and Domestic Violence. Jon holds a graduate diploma in psychology (advanced), a bachelor’s degree in social science (Psychology) with distinction and has qualifications in Mental Health, Alcohol, Other Drugs and Counselling. Jon is a registered member of the Australian Counselling Association. Jon brings a number of years’ worth of experience and training in facilitating men’s groups.

As a group facilitator, Jon is passionate about the possibilities that emerge when men develop a stronger relationship with themselves, and about supporting men to find greater meaning and purpose in their lives.

MEET HELEN

(SHE/HER)

Helen is the co-founder of The Courageous Man. She is a highly sought after couples and family therapist who works with couples from all over Australia and the Asia Pacific Region. She is certified couple’s therapist and facilitator with the Relational Life Institute created by Terry Real. Helen also brings over a decade worth of experience and training in facilitating men’s groups. She is passionate about supporting men to be the partners and fathers they want to be – which is what she believes the world needs more than ever before.

What to know more?

More about the 8-week group program

Each week there will theme to get you thinking, feeling & sharing:

Week 1: Getting settled. What is Modern Masculinity? Meaning & Purpose
Week 2: Healthy Self-Esteem & Boundaries
Week 3: Power and Assertiveness
Week 4: Emotions & Safety
Week 6: Healing old wounds
Week 7: Intimacy & Relationship skills
Week 8: Integration. Who am I now?

There will be time each week you to share the load and unpack your deepest challenges in your life.

What You’ll Experience Inside the 8 Week Men’s Group

Engage in 8 interactive sessions, sharing the tools and practices to build emotional strength, connection, and relational confidence.

Grow alongside other men who get it and want to grow too. Share reflections, wins, and gain support.

Engage in deep discussions in a space where honesty is welcomed, and nothing is off limits.
Accelerate your breakthroughs between sessions with practices designed to reinforce your learning and real-world application.
Get expert guidance and direct feedback from two therapists.
Go beyond small talk, with a group of 12 like-minded men where you’re seen, supported, and understood. We keep the groups small so we can provide 1:1 support to men who need it.

Want more information? Check our FAQs or Email us at connect@thecourageousman.com.au

MEN’S GROUP OPTIONS

March – June 2026

In-Person Men’s Group

Tuesdays 6pm – 8pm
Terrigal Beach, NSW

Week 1 March 31st, 2026
Week 2 April 7th, 2026
Week 3 April 14, 2026
Week 4 April 21, 2026
Week 5 April 28th. 2026
Week 6 May 5th, 2026
No Group: May 12th and 19th.
Time to integrate

Week 7 May 26th, 2026
Week 8 June 2nd, 2026

August – October 2026

In-Person Men’s Group

Tuesdays 6pm – 8pm
Terrigal Beach, NSW

Week 1 August 11th, 2026
Week 2 August 18th, 2026
Week 3 August 25th, 2026
Week 4 September 1st,2026
Week 5 September 8th, 2026
Week 6 September 25th, 2026
No Group September 22nd and 29th.
Time to integrate.

Week 7 October 6th, 2026
Week 8 October 13th, 2026

May – July 2026

Online Men’s Group

Wednesdays 6pm-8pm
AEST (Sydney)

Week 1 May 27th, 2026
Week 2 June 3rd, 2026
Week 3 June 10th, 2026
Week 4 June 17th, 2026
No Group June 24th.
Time to integrate.

Week 5 July 1st, 2026
Week 6 July 8th, 2026
Week 7 July 15, 2026
Week 8 July 22nd, 2026

October – December 2026

Online Men’s Group

Wednesdays 6pm-8pm
AEST (Sydney)

Week 1 October 7th, 2026
Week 2 October 14th, 2026
Week 3 October 21st, 2026
Week 4 October 28th, 2026
No Group November 4, 2026.
Time to integrate.

Week 5 November 11th, 2026
Week 6 November 18, 2026
Week 7 November 25, 2026
Week 8 December 2nd, 2026

MEN’S GROUP FAQS

Who do I speak to if I have more questions?2026-02-03T13:54:47+11:00

We are usually busy seeing clients during the day so if you have any questions email us at connect@thecourageousman.com.au

Is this an official Relational Life Therapy (RLT)/ Terry Real Men’s group?2026-02-03T13:54:23+11:00

No, it’s not an official RLT group nor is it endorsed by the RLT Institute. It is informed and inspired by the RLT model and the men’s coaching program created by Terry Real. Helen holds certification as an RLT Couple’s Therapist and Facilitator.

We acknowledge and pay our respects the RLT Institute and Terry Real for this.

What are the terms & conditions for joining the group?2026-02-03T13:53:57+11:00

This is a therapeutic men’s group consisting of eight in-person sessions, each of two hours in duration. The group is facilitated by registered Australian Counselling Association (ACA) members and is conducted in accordance with ACA guidelines, relevant ethical frameworks, and applicable Australian and New South Wales legislation.

In joining a group, you are agreeing to the following Terms & Conditions which will also be presented on your ticket/receipt.

Download Terms & Conditions

Why is there a woman facilitating an all-men’s group?2026-02-03T13:52:20+11:00

This is very intentional on our part; we believe it makes our group different from men’s groups. We are committed to showing up as two whole and equal human beings relating respectfully. This is one the core values of The Courageous Man.

We are pro-man, pro-woman, pro-fathers & mothers, pro-respect, and pro-equality.

By ‘walking our talk’ in the group, we hope to offer you an example of how two whole individuals relate in a respectful way. What we intend to model applies to all kinds of relationships – intimate, parent-child relationship, co-parenting, and professional relationships – as is the case for Jon and Helen.

Having two facilitators also means you get an added bonus of two different people’s perspectives and expertise.

What are your skills and training in running groups?2026-02-03T13:51:47+11:00

Jon and Helen are two highly experienced and qualified men’s group facilitators. We both also have extensive personal experience being members of groups as part of our healing and growth journeys. 

Helen brings over seven years of experience as a Men’s Behaviour Change group facilitator. She has completed a ‘Graduate Certificate in Men’s Behaviour Change – Individual and Group-work Interventions through NSW Health. She is also a trained and experienced group facilitator of the Caring Dad’s group program developed in Canada. She has also trained in the Gestalt psychotherapeutic approach to groups, emphasising working in the ‘here and now’. In addition, Helen has completed training in “Yalom Group Psychotherapy: Leadership and Facilitation skills”.

Jon has been facilitating groups for the past six years that include Men’s Behaviour Change, Engage, and psychoeducational programs, and has received extensive training in motivational interviewing, behavioural change strategies, and groupwork-specific techniques. The various programs that Jon has delivered include a broad range of topics, such as: Addiction and Recovery and Other Dependencies, Family Systems, Emotions, Anger, Conflict Resolution, Resentments, Stress Management, Managing Sadness, Depression and Loneliness, Self Esteem, Relationships, Shame and Guilt, and Self-Awareness.

Is this an official Relational Life Therapy (RLT)/ Terry Real Men’s Group?2026-02-03T13:51:13+11:00

No, it’s not an official RLT group nor is it endorsed by the RLT Institute. It is informed and inspired by the RLT model and the men’s coaching program created by Terry Real. Helen holds certification as an RLT Couple’s Therapist and RLT Bootcamp Facilitator.

We acknowledge the RLT Institute and Terry Real for their content we will share with you.

Do you offer discounts, or sliding scale or concessions?2026-02-03T13:56:19+11:00

No, not usually, however if you really want to join a group, and the cost is stopping you from doing so, please reach out and connect@thecouraegousman.com.au

Do you provide any medical rebates, or do you bulk bill?2026-02-03T13:50:35+11:00

No, we do not offer any rebates, and we do not bulk bill.

Will the on-line sessions be recorded?2026-02-03T13:50:14+11:00

No. What men share is personal and private so will not record the zoom group sessions.

Is the group confidential?2026-02-03T13:49:51+11:00

Confidentiality is vital to ensure the group is safe and you can share whatever you want. All group members must commit to never discussing what another group member has said. You can talk about your personal experience being in the group to friends & partners but never talk about what another man has shared. We discuss this in more detail when the group first meets.

As professionals, we offer complete confidentiality except in the following instances:

• If we believe you are at serious risk of harming yourself or others. We would only do this in imminent circumstances, and we will try and discuss it with you first.
• Like all mental health professionals, we are mandatory reporters under NSW child protection law, which means that in a case where a child is at risk, we must report to the relevant authorities.
• We may sometimes discuss client work with a clinical supervisor. The same code of ethics and confidentiality binds our supervisors.
• Absolute confidentiality cannot be guaranteed in a group context, and participants acknowledge shared responsibility for maintaining confidentiality.

We do not keep case notes from the group.

What is your refund policy?2026-02-03T13:49:19+11:00

Full payment is required upfront.

We offer a 100% money-back guarantee if, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied within 48 hours of your first group and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.

After this 48-hour period, expect that no refunds will be offered.

If you miss a group – you still pay.

What if I come to the group and don’t feel like sharing?2026-02-03T13:48:50+11:00

As facilitators, we will never force you to share anything. We also understand it may take being in the group a while before you feel comfortable sharing – this is normal.

That being said, the more you have the courage to share in the group, the more you’ll
get out of it. There will be small break-out groups which you may feel more comfortable sharing, especially in the first few weeks.

We will support you along the way.

I identify as a gay, bisexual man, and/or or non-binary, will I be welcome?2026-02-03T13:48:28+11:00

Yes. At The Courageous Man we welcome people of all genders and sexual orientations into our groups.

Self-awareness and relational skills are self-awareness & relational skills regardless of gender & sexual orientations.

I’m not in a relationship or a father; can I still join?2026-02-03T13:47:57+11:00

Yes — relational skills are relational skills. This group is for men who want to grow, heal, and build better, healthier relationships in every area of life whether that’s with yourself, your friends, family, or coworkers.

If you’re single, dating, and looking to enjoy more fulfilling and connected relationships, these skills will 100% be beneficial.

Where are the in-person groups held?2026-02-03T13:47:34+11:00

The two in-person groups will meet at The Courageous Man Space overlooking Terrigal Beach: Suite 1, 58 Terrigal Esplanade, Terrigal Beach

Terrigal Beach is about an hours’ drive from northern suburbs of Sydney, and 90 minutes from the Sydney CBD. It is just over an hour’s drive from Newcastle.

What if I can’t make all of the group dates?2026-02-03T13:47:09+11:00

It’s important you commit to showing up each week. This is not a passive program – the transformation comes through doing the exercises, reflecting on the between-session activities and being part of the group process in real-time.

That being said, we know life can happen. If you miss a session, we ask you to let us and the group know.

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